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  • in reply to: right effort #20851
    Lal
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    Hi Siebe: My suggestion is to use the sankhara instead of “formations”: “Sankhāra – What It Really Means“.

    Pali words are complex and it is impossible to translate with a single English word. So, for most people it would be better to just understand what is meant by such words, and just use the Pali word.

    But of course it is up to each person.

    in reply to: right effort #20846
    Lal
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    Chrisitian said: It’s better to not compare and to not bring any outside schools here and trying to fit them here in terms of anything right as they are not right at all in most cases.”

    I agree. Trying to address concepts in other schools will only lead to confusion. I have mentioned this several times. Please keep that mind when you post.

    We have enough difficulties with dealing with “bad or useless translations” in Theravada itself.

    That is why I asked Siebe to clarify what he meant by “formations” (I think he meant sankhara).
    – It is better to use key Pali words like sankhara instead of using “formations” which does not convey any meaning. It is better to try to learn the meanings of key Pali words and then use those Pali words.

    in reply to: right effort #20828
    Lal
    Keymaster

    Siebe: Can you clarify what these these “formations” are?

    in reply to: right effort #20819
    Lal
    Keymaster

    Right VISION (Samma Ditthi) is achieved first that it is NOT FRUITFUL to take, “this is not mine, not who i am, not myself’ AND all formations and states are impermanent, cannot be kept to ones satisfaction, are unsatisfactory, and without essence or self”.

    I have explained this many times before. But here is another way to say that.

    One who has SEEN the truth of that is a Sotapanna. That is called getting rid of wrong views about this world or “ditthi vipallāsa”.

    But that person still have two more stages to overcome: Saññā vipallāsa (wrong perceptions) and Citta vipāllasa (wrong way of thinking based on such perceptions which continue as “habits”). That is why a Sotapanna may still enjoy sense pleasures.

    It is sort of like someone being able to convince for oneself that smoking is bad for one’s health. But that person may still continue smoking (with less and less frequency) until he gets rid of that habit one day.

    See: “Is It Necessary for a Buddhist to Eliminate Sensual Desires?“.

    A Sotapanna not only has NOT gotten rid of the sense of “me” (which happens at the Arahant stage), but still likes to enjoy sense pleasures (which goes away at the Anāgami stage).

    in reply to: Ectopic pregnancy #20802
    Lal
    Keymaster

    This is one of those in the “grey area”.

    If a fetus in the womb is aborted, that is definitely “killing a human being”; see, “Buddhist Explanations of Conception, Abortion, and Contraception“.

    I Googled “ectopic pregnancy” and the following are bits of information from there:

    1. “ectopic pregnancy — happens when a fertilized egg gets stuck on its way to the uterus”.
    2. – So, the fetus does not get to the uterus.

    3. The pregnancy may not even be detected until either “The structure containing the fetus typically ruptures after about 6 to 16 weeks, long before the fetus is viable..”
    4. – So, normally pregnancy is detected when that structure ruptures and the mother is taken to a hospital.
      – Then the doctors remove that fetus anyway, to save the mother’s life.

    5. There have been few cases where the fetus grows outside the womb and the baby is delivered (but the pregnancy had not been detected): “Ectopic pregnancy“.
    6. So, it seems ectopic pregnancy is detected when the mother starts bleeding, and then the normal procedure is to remove it to save the mother.

    We must also realize that there are many instances where it is impossible to live without harming other beings (not humans, unless it is a special case like this).
    – When we apply medicine to a wound, for example, numerous microscopic beings are killed. When we take medicine for a stomach-ache the same.
    – So, sometimes it is unavoidable to avoid these things as long as we are in this rebirth process.

    in reply to: My experience and a question #20782
    Lal
    Keymaster

    Glad to hear you are making progress, Aniduan.

    I think you have figured out the solution to your remaining problem: “I still get angry at work place when someone does a mistake and tries to blame me for that. My anger is causing vaci shankara(keep hating them in my mind) and kaya shankara(displaying anger at them using words)…”

    You have understood vaci sankhara and kaya sankhara correctly.
    – As long as one keeps generating conscious thoughts of anger (vaci sankhara) and expresses that with speech and bodily actions, it will be hard to control.
    – This where the “effort” or “viriya” comes in.

    Try to control anger at them, even if it is their fault that makes you angry.
    – Try to reduce interactions with those who annoy you, if possible.

    Also try to do mundane metta bhavana specifically towards them first (wishing them be happy, peaceful, and healthy). Picture them in your mind as you do that. It may be hard to do at first, but you may be pleasantly surprised in the long term.
    – Then also do Ariya metta bhavana towards all beings. Think about the suffering of those beings in the lower realms (including the animal realm) and wish them to be released of such suffering.
    – Another thing is to think about bad consequences of generating bad thoughts/speech/actions, AND the possible good consequences of being able to suppress them.

    in reply to: Goenka´s Vipassana #20777
    Lal
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    Hello Nikita! Welcome to the forum!

    Those “bodily feelings” are nothing to worry about. They could be related to jhanas too.

    Yes. Even breath meditation or mundane kasina mediation can easily get one to experience such things (including jhana), especially if one had cultivated jhanas in recent previous lives as a human.
    – Then one could have even been born in a brahma realm, and may have come back to the human realm.

    As we know one can be born (jati) as a human many times within a given human existence (bhava): “Bhava and Jāti – States of Existence and Births Therein“.

    So, those who had cultivated (anariya) jhana in the recent past may easily experience such “bodily feelings” or even jhana. It is those who also can easily experience “out-of-body” experiences where the “mental body” (gandhabba) can come out. Those who can do “astral travel” do that by coming out of the physical body with the gandhabba.

    However, those previous jhana experiences are NOT likely to be Ariya jhanas. If they were one would not be coming back to the human realm or even deva realms. That is because one’s kama raga would have been REMOVED; see, “Mundane versus Supramundane Jhāna“.

    In any case, Nikita is on the right track. As he says, one should not be satisfied (complacent) with any jhanic experiences. Those are temporary. We all had cultivated not only jhanas, but also supernormal (iddhi) powers in our deep past.

    I always point out to the fact that Devadatta had cultivated jhanas and iddhi powers, but he lost all that and born in an apaya.
    – On the other hand, being able to get to any jhana is a good thing (and may not be easy for some). That means one is able to at least suppress kama raga temporarily, and thus get to a better state of mind.
    – However, it is not necessary to cultivate jhana in order to attain magga phala.

    in reply to: Tilakhanna III #20776
    Lal
    Keymaster

    Yeos post was in the spam folder and I just “unspammed” it.

    If your post does not show up, please send me an email: [email protected].

    I am not sure why it happens sometimes. But I can easily recover them.

    Lal
    Keymaster

    I don’t think this book has those details. This is a good book that I recently mentioned in a post. But it has very little information before the Buddhahood.

    Lal
    Keymaster

    It is surprising to me that there does not seem to be any English textbooks on the life of Prince Siddhartha in general.

    Such information is unlikely to be in the suttas, but could be in the Vinaya Piṭaka. I have not had time to look at the Vinaya Piṭaka (I only started reading suttas after the Parinibbana of Waharaka Thero; until then I just relied on his desanas).

    When I was growing up in Sri Lanka, these details on Buddha’s life before Enlightenment (i.e., Prince Siddhartha’s) were taught in school. There were books written in Sinhala. So, it never occurred me to even look into this aspect all this time.

    After seeing upekkha100’s post, I looked into it a bit, but could not find much online or in textbook form.

    If anyone knows any text books or online info, that would be very beneficial.

    in reply to: Rebirth,heredity , gathi… #20705
    Lal
    Keymaster

    No problem, y not.

    You said: “So then, a new-born’s character will be overwhelmingly influenced by its own gathi , as well as by its own free will later on in life, and to a lesser degree by the gathi of its parents(lodged in their genetic code).”

    As was discussed, there are many factors. But ALWAYS one’s free will is at the forefront.

    One has to make a determination to change the course for the better or the worse.

    But sometimes (when one has a weak mind and does not pay attention), one may just “go with the flow” according to one’s environment.
    – This is why parents must always be on the lookout on what kind of friends a child has. Friends can be a huge influence on a child.
    – This is also true for adults. One must get away from those who pull in wrong directions, and make new associations along “good directions”.

    in reply to: Rebirth,heredity , gathi… #20703
    Lal
    Keymaster

    Siebe sadi: “mayebe in some way or the other, information from former lifes, which comes with the gandhabba, as blueprint for the new life, plays a role in activating certain inhereted genetic codes or causing them to be deactivated?”

    Of course. The genetic code will be determined by a combination of that AND the parents.

    in reply to: Rebirth,heredity , gathi… #20689
    Lal
    Keymaster

    According to the Wikipedia article Phenotype:
    “An organism’s phenotype results from two basic factors: the expression of an organism’s genetic code, or its genotype, and the influence of environmental factors, which may interact, further affecting phenotype.”

    So, that does not take into account one’s sansaric gathi at all.

    In Buddha Dhamma those sansaric gathi actually DETERMINE one’s birth. Once that first step is complete then of course one’s parents (genetics) and the environment that one grows up, will play roles.

    But one’s parents are also determined by one’s sansaric gathi, so that plays the key role.

    Of course, one’s gathi (or gati) could change significantly if one’s environment (especially friends and associates) changes drastically. So, that is also an important factor.

    Above two key factors are discussed in the following posts and in the links therein:
    Buddhist Explanations of Conception, Abortion, and Contraception AND
    The Law of Attraction, Habits, Character (Gati), and Cravings (Asavas)

    in reply to: Nibbida #20667
    Lal
    Keymaster

    Exactly!
    “PAHANAsaññā, virāgasaññā, nirodhasaññā..”, all those seven types of saññā are what one cultivates — and ends up with — with “nibbida”.

    See, “Saññā – What It Really Means“.

    in reply to: Nibbida #20665
    Lal
    Keymaster

    “Becoming fed up with some things is oke, not bad, don’t you think so?”

    Yes. That is good.
    When one starts comprehending Tilakkhana, one can start seeing that somethings are just not worthwhile doing. The examples you gave are good.

    Many current English translations translate nibbida as “revulsion” but that is not correct.

    It is more like an adult not enjoying making sand castles on the beach anymore (which one used to enjoy as a child).

    One does not need to forcibly give up such activities. One just is not interested in such activities anymore. So it comes automatically through wisdom (panna).

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