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    What if someone constantly thinks about misfortunes happening to them like breaking a leg, losing their house, their car burning down, getting a disease, turning blind,  being in a airplane crash, etc.

    If they simply think about it(a lot), then it is more likely to happen to them? With negative thoughts they will not put in the effort to make it happen like they would with positive thoughts. If anything, they would put in the effort to prevent the negative thoughts from happening.

    in reply to: Examples of doing Anapana in sankappa, vaca, and kammanta. #25959
    upekkha100
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    So it’s not killing, not stealing, not doing sexual misconduct, not lying, not saying harsh speech, not slandering, not speaking idle chatter, etc.

    For not killing, not stealing, not doing sexual misconduct-isn’t that what majority of humans are doing right now? Are they doing kusala kamma(purifying their minds) in that respect?

    It seems that some of the kusala kamma are non-activities.

    1) Isn’t that basically doing nothing(like not killing, not stealing, etc)?

    2) If it is doing nothing, can it be classified as kamma?

    3) Can one purify one’s mind from doing nothing?

    in reply to: Examples of doing Anapana in sankappa, vaca, and kammanta. #25941
    upekkha100
    Participant

    What are a few examples of kusala kamma(actions that purify the mind)?

    in reply to: Examples of doing Anapana in sankappa, vaca, and kammanta. #25932
    upekkha100
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    I know we should Anapana thoughts that are the stronger versions of greed like lobha/abhijja. But what about weaker versions of greed like assada/kama raga.

    It is starting at the Anagami stage one has eliminated kama raga. Sotapanna and Sakadagami still have kama raga.

    1) So should we also suppress thoughts that involve assada/kama raga(thoughts about food, music, beautiful sceneries, an attractive person)?

    2) Do we need to suppress and Anapana assada/kama raga to get to Sotapanna stage?

    in reply to: Examples of doing Anapana in sankappa, vaca, and kammanta. #25916
    upekkha100
    Participant

    If I understand correctly, an impure mind has a more difficult time grasping concepts and concentrating during meditation.

    Anapana purifies the mind right?

    If I keep doing Anapana, then gradually within time my mind will be more pure and thus I’ll be able grasp more Buddhist concepts.

    in reply to: To become a Sotapanna, do you have to know Paticca Samuppada? #25876
    upekkha100
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    This worries me. I have trouble understanding the Paticca Samuppada. All this time I thought it was mainly the Tilakkhana one had to understand.

    Does one have to know the ins and outs in detail or is a general understanding fine?

    Or is it that they understand Paticca Samuda as result of becoming Sotapanna, as in after becoming Sotapanna?

    in reply to: Clarification on the Velama Sutta AN 9.20 #23760
    upekkha100
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    Oh so then when the Sutta said a whiff of metta and with a confident mind going to the Buddha, the Dhamma, and the Sangha for refuge this is meant for Ariyas and not anariyas

    in reply to: Clarification on the Velama Sutta AN 9.20 #23727
    upekkha100
    Participant

    Thanks Lal. I have three more questions.

    1) What does “even just one whiff of” mean from the following quote? Does it mean how long it takes to take a whiff, so like even a FEW SECONDS of metta is greatly meritorious?

    Quote:
    “If one were to develop even just one whiff of a heart of good will, that would be more fruitful than… if one with a confident mind were to undertake the training rules”

    2) Can the following quote be a merit earned by an anariya/putthujana or can only an Ariya earn it? Anyone even an anariya if cultivates even a whiff of metta it would be greatly meritorious for that anariya?

    Quote:
    “If one were to develop even just one whiff of a heart of good will, that would be more fruitful than… if one with a confident mind were to undertake the training rules”

    3) Can the following quote be a merit earned by an anariya/putthujana or can only an Ariya earn it? Anyone even an anariya if with a  with a confident mind were to go to the Buddha, Dhamma, & Sangha for refuge it would be greatly meritorious for that anariya?

    Quote:
    “If one with a confident mind were to go to the Buddha, Dhamma, & Sangha for refuge, that would be more fruitful than… if one were to have a dwelling built and dedicated to the Community of the four directions.”

    in reply to: Black Magic According To Buddha Dhamma #23716
    upekkha100
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    Mara is a deva from thge highest deva realm but he is often called a demon(to be clear there is an actual sentient being called Mara who is a deva and also kilesa mara which is the defilements of our own minds, he has been said to be the personification of these defilements. I have seen him being compared to as the Buddhist devil and satan before if I remember correctly.  A being who wants to deter someones virtue and ultimate goal like he tried to do with the Buddha. There are other devas like Mara. So if people do black magic it would more likely to me deal with devas and not petas. Just to give more examples it is most likely devas and not those in dugati:
    1) those in dugati are suffering and helpless and most likely have no magic nor power. Devas have power though.
    2) In Islam black magic is done by jinns. Jinns are the closest thing to devas, similar superpowers too. There are both good jinns and bad jinns, just as there are both good or bad devas and humans. Highest jinn is Ibliss, or Islamic Satan/devil
    3) in Christianity I believe black magic is done by demons. In Christianity there are good angels and bad angels. Bad ones are called fallen angels and sometimes called demonic, even Satan once the highest angel is called devil. Just as Mara is in the highest deva realm and with the most powers and also inclination to corrupt people and challenge the Buddha just like Christian Satan challenge Jesus and Islamic Satan. Just trying to point out interesting paralells to Mara in Buddhism to Christian Satan and Islamic Satan, or other Satan characters in other cultures. I’m sure someone has written a book or article on these paralells already. Point was it is most likely malevolent devas like Mara who do this.

    You ask:
    “Does the Buddha mention these practices”, here is a sutta relating to your topic:
    Kevatta Sutta DN11

    You bring up an interesting topic. I’m just wondering how does one undo black magic  or break free from black magic being done by devas on the order oh humans.

    in reply to: the effects of practices and contemplations. #21940
    upekkha100
    Participant

    Also from this PureDhamma post:
    The Sōtapanna Stage

    Here is the part about the Sabbasava Sutta:

    “Key Points from the Sabbāsava Sutta

    The key to attaining Nibbāna is to remove the āsavas (residue from fermentation of bad thoughts/habits over many sansaricbirths). This will be discussed under the key Dhamma Concepts.

    In the Sabbāsava Sutta, the Buddha listed seven steps to remove the āsavas and to purify the mind thus paving the way to Nibbāna.  These seven steps are listed below:

    1. Removal by clear vision (“dassanena pahathabba”, where dassana is vision and pahathabba is removal). This is clear understanding of anicca, dukkha, anatta.
    2. Removal by  the restrained use of the senses (“sanvarena pahathabba”, wheresanvara is disciplined use of the sense faculties: not to over-indulge in the senses).

    3. Removal by good and frequent associations (“patisevana pahathabba”, where sevana is association: for example, with good friends and good deeds).

    4. Removal by tolerance and patience (“adhivasana pahathabba”). For example, even if one is tempted to steal because one is hungry, one should contemplate the consequences and bear the hunger.

    5. Removal by staying clear of “bad influences and environments” (“parivajjana pahathabba”). One needs to avoid bad friends, bad locations for living (due to floods, bad neighbors, etc), avoiding unsuitable times to go out, etc.

    6. Removal by getting rid of certain things (“vinodana pahathabba”). One needs to get rid of bad thoughts that come to mind, for example, for excessive sense pleasure, hate, etc.

    7. Removal by meditation (“bhavana pahathabba”). When one has the clear vision in #1, it becomes apparent what to contemplate on.”

    When applied in real life practically and consistently, those techniques work.

    in reply to: the effects of practices and contemplations. #21939
    upekkha100
    Participant

    Hi Siebe.

    If that method does not seem beneficial, what about khanti(enduring, forbearing, tolerance, patience)?

    And what about the 7 techniques outlined in the Sabbasava Sutta?

    Sabbasava Sutta MN 2 (All asavas/defilements)

    Sutta description:
    “The diverse problems of the spiritual journey demand a diverse range of responses. Rather than applying the same solution to every problem, the Buddha outlines seven methods of dealing with defilements, each of which works in certain cases.”

    Here are the specific ones that might be useful to you:
    2. Defilements Given Up by Restraint

    And what are the defilements that should be given up by restraint? Take a mendicant who, reflecting properly, lives restraining the faculty of the eye. For the distressing and feverish defilements that might arise in someone who lives without restraint of the eye faculty do not arise when there is such restraint. Reflecting properly, they live restraining the faculty of the ear … the nose … the tongue … the body … the mind. For the distressing and feverish defilements that might arise in someone who lives without restraint of the mind faculty do not arise when there is such restraint.

    For the distressing and feverish defilements that might arise in someone who lives without restraint do not arise when there is such restraint. These are called the defilements that should be given up by restraint.

    4. Defilements Given Up by Enduring

    And what are the defilements that should be given up by enduring? Take a mendicant who, reflecting properly, endures cold, heat, hunger, and thirst. They endure the touch of flies, mosquitoes, wind, sun, and reptiles. They endure rude and unwelcome criticism. And they put up with physical pain—sharp, severe, acute, unpleasant, disagreeable, and life-threatening.

    For the distressing and feverish defilements that might arise in someone who lives without enduring these things do not arise when they are endured. These are called the defilements that should be given up by enduring.

    5. Defilements Given Up by Avoiding

    And what are the defilements that should be given up by avoiding? Take a mendicant who, reflecting properly, avoids a wild elephant, a wild horse, a wild ox, a wild dog, a snake, a stump, thorny ground, a pit, a cliff, a swamp, and a sewer. Reflecting properly, they avoid sitting on inappropriate seats, walking in inappropriate neighborhoods, and mixing with bad friends—whatever sensible spiritual companions would believe to be a bad setting.

    For the distressing and feverish defilements that might arise in someone who lives without avoiding these things do not arise when they are avoided. These are called the defilements that should be given up by avoiding.

    6. Defilements Given Up by Dispelling

    And what are the defilements that should be given up by dispelling? Take a mendicant who, reflecting properly, doesn’t tolerate a sensual, malicious, or cruel thought that has arisen, but gives it up, gets rid of it, eliminates it, and obliterates it. They don’t tolerate any bad, unskillful qualities that have arisen, but give them up, get rid of them, eliminate them, and obliterate them.

    For the distressing and feverish defilements that might arise in someone who lives without dispelling these things do not arise when they are dispelled. These are called the defilements that should be given up by dispelling.”

    upekkha100
    Participant

    Lal wrote:
    -“This does not mean a saddhānusārī will attain the Sotāpanna stage within that lifetime. ”

    -“So, basically, a Sōtapanna Anugāmi may be born many times a human until getting to the Sōtapanna stage (may even have many human bhava, each with many human jāti). ”

    That makes me wonder about the time when the Buddha was here. What if those who were able to attain Sotapanna stage and other stages of magga phala so quickly(more quickly than others) were not mere puthujjana, but were already Sotapanna Anugami, hence why they needed just a bit more push. And those who took longer were puthujjana, not even Sotapanna Anugami yet.

    in reply to: What is a thought? – How many cittas? #21936
    upekkha100
    Participant

    Hi Dr. J Chakma. You seem to have a deep understanding of Abhidhamma. You explained it in an understandable way as does Lal. Thank you. Please don’t hesitate to post more often if you can. This goes for other members as well. It seems this site has many readers but not much who post on the forum. I think maybe because they feel reluctant to post thinking they might get something wrong(but as Lal said we all make mistakes, we’ll just point them out and try to correct them if we notice any inconsistencies/contradictions), when in reality they could also have a different/unique way of explaining something. You may not know it but your input could very well be beneficial/useful/helpful to others.

    in reply to: Past experiences #21892
    upekkha100
    Participant

    Benefits of Metta/karuna cultivation:
    -Reduction/weakening of dosa
    -Metta is considered a kind of giving. Thus it is dana. Thus opposite of lobha. Thus it would not only weaken/reduce dosa but weaken/reduce lobha as well. That’s 2/3 akusala mula.
    -Cultivating metta and karuna weakens or perhaps even totally delete many past bad kamma. Sharing the merits also has the same effect.
    -Not only weaken/delete past bad kamma. But is highly meritorious. Merit=good kamma. Good kamma=blessings/protection/good luck/miracles. You’ve heard stories of sick people getting miraculously cured. Miracles are nothing more than peoples’ past good kamma coming to fruition. What you and I are going through now is probably a bad kamma vipaka. Hopefully doing this could cut its duration shorter than it was supposed to be.

    11 Benefits of metta
    Metta (Mettanisamsa) Sutta

    Just how meritorious metta is:
    Velāma Sutta

    All this is to encourage others like me who whenever hear the advise of “metta/karuna” would not totally heed it but neglect it or are slacking off on cultivating it. Majority of the bhavana was informal, not even formal. Did not even take that long, just divided into at least 3 times throughout the day. I want to show it has clear results. I’ve experienced them. And it’s only been three months. I wonder what the results will be one year from now.

    Siebe, if you feel you want to share more and just talk about your situation, and think it might not be suitable for the forum, I’m here to hear you out, you are welcome to contact me by email: [email protected]

    in reply to: Past experiences #21891
    upekkha100
    Participant

    So I revamped my methods.
    Karuna bhavana procedure:
    1) I can’t just do the bhavana here and there, skip some days, just do it when I feel likenit. Be strict about it. Do it everyday. Not skip.
    2) 3 times or more per day. As much as possible throughout the day
    3) Not mechanically, with no feeling. Each good will, not only one of them, recited it in a way so that I sense/feel the karuna. So that the karuna bhavana actually counts.
    4) Share the merits of that karuna bhavana and all of my good deeds with all sentient beings.

    One of my strategies to induce/trigger karuna is thinking or watching others suffering. Then recite the good wills. The suffering could be real or even fiction. Like your favorite movie, show, book, etc, where you saw a really heart wrenching event that made you cry. I imagine we’ve all been through something like this fictional character and worse many times rebirth after rebirth. It really works. At least for me it does. I feel the karuna within me. When I do this my karuna bhavana and recital of the good wills is a success. I can see the stark difference between this and when I don’t think about others suffering.

    And a side note. The karuna bhavana does not have to be formal, like when sitting down. But whenever you get the chance(after you wake up, before you sleep, before eating, before drinking water, before brushing your teeth). Just choose 3 short wishes that really induce your compassion, and then wish it for all sentient beings.

    The Okkha sutta says between someone serving food once in morning, once midday, and once evening vs someone radiating even a little bit of metta once in morning, once midday, and once in the evening-the latter would be more fruitful.

    Okkha Sutta: Serving Dishes
    “”Staying at Savatthi. “Monks, if someone were to give a gift of one hundred serving dishes [of food] in the morning, one hundred at mid-day, and one hundred in the evening; and another person were to develop a mind of good-will — even for the time it takes to pull on a cow’s udder — in the morning, again at mid-day, and again in the evening, this [the second action] would be more fruitful than that [the first].”

    I’ve been doing this for about the past 3 months, and also sharing the merits of my good deeds and bhavana with all sentient beings everyday, pretty strict to the routine.

    And these are the results/clear changes within me:
    For the first time after a long while:
    1) Momentary awareness has improved. When doing everyday tasks, I am more able to focus on that task.
    2) I can actually concentrate on my breath. Getting better at not breaking the concentration too, like holding focus on the consecutive breaths. (This is also to help produce gaba, which helps with ocd and other anxiety disorders.)
    3) I feel my body is more relaxed. Not as clenched/tense.
    4) I feel the goosebumps and feel the karuna for not only one good will but majority of them, and many times all of them, as if I’m able to sustain on karuna for that duration.

    I think I was able to achieve all that because my dosa/asavas have reduced/weakened. That is why my concentration improved. Due to diligently doing the karuna bhavana everyday these past three months.

    Lobha/dosa/moha are the akusala, and asavas and pancanivrana.
    They are what hinder our meditation, concentration, samadhi, and practising the Path .

    The Buddha said the antidote to dosa is adosa.
    Metta/karuna are very strong versions of adosa.
    Thus some of the greatest antidotes to dosa/asavas.
    Means they will help in reducing and weakening the dosa from our minds.

    I have noticed my hatred is not what it used to be. I feel it melting away.

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