Does this explanation apply to this situation? Let’s take the example of a married man who can no longer be satisfied with his wife. He would really like to relive the flame he experienced on the first day of their marriage. However, he is unable to recreate the happiness of the first days and starts to get depressed. In other situations, depending on his gatī, he may indulge in adultery or a secret affair. I don’t know if this is correct, but a sotāpanna can be in a dull marriage, right? However, since he or she knows about the inability to maintain feelings to our liking, he or she will not indulge in adultery out of boredom.
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