This is the reason, why repeated endless attempts to have happiness in “this world” *ALWAYS FAILS*.
Why it fails?
Because one expects to not experience pain after touching hot pan.
Is that fair expectation?
Is it possible to not experience suffering after touching hot pan?
Is one fool or wise to expect no pain after touching the hot pan?
On the other hand, even if pan is there, if you don’t touch it,
Does it create the pain?