Can Nibbana be considered one’s self?

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    • #51959
      lagrade
      Participant

      Hello Dhamma friends,

      In “Self” and “no-self”: A Simple Analysis – Do We Always Act with Avijjā?:

      Getting back to the first comment, instead of saying either “a person exists” or “a person does not exist,” the Buddha said that a living being exists moment-to-moment. We cannot deny that a person exists, but there is nothing absolute about “a person.” Instead, “a person” continually changes; we conventionally call a person “John Smith,” etc.
      • Another way to say the same thing is to say that “a living being” exists in a given state until the cause (and conditions) that give rise to that existence exist. Once root causes are changed, that existence will change to a new one. For example, if a human starts doing things that animals usually do, then that person will likely get an animal birth after death.

      By the law of cause and effect (Paticca Samuppada), a sentient being comes into existence based on the ripened past cause(s) and is capable of perceiving things and making decisions involving thoughts, speech and bodily actions. So it would not be correct to say they don’t exist.

      However, there is no such entity that doesn’t change and can be kept the way one likes. In other words, the entire 5 aggregates are impermanent and unreliable (anicca). So it would not be tenable to say that a “self” exists.

      Funnily enough, the annoying part is that no matter how much the aggregates change, the perception of a well-defined self is there every moment until the mind is purified to the arahant level.

      Now I would like to extend this idea to the unconditioned element that is Nibbana. One can’t say something is their self if it is anicca, anatta, and dukkha. This includes everything in this world (citta, cetasika and rupa). But since Nibbana is described as nicca, atta and sukha (the opposite of the conditioned elements) and only the specific mind that cultivates this correct perception (that conditions are Tilakkhana) merges with this element, would it be appropriate to say Nibbana is their “self”?

      This also makes me think that “no me” is not a correct approach because there will be the deathless replacing the conditioned. What do you guys think?

       

    • #51964

      Good householder, not on “guy”, just out of compassion:

      It’s good and very needed to see one’s actions as own, make them important, look for it’s beauty and purity, to practice and to abound all of what’s no refuge, including, after having abond objects of identification in the sensual-word, also such as perception, even ideas of Nibbana.

      But for now just much care about what’s a useful island, goodness, metta, virtue, purification of Sila, to gain the required Brahma-joy, to be able of refined purification and beyond.

      No need to worry about useless identifications which aren’t of much support for doing the task of going beyond Dukkha. Yet that task needs a lot of conceit, a lot of desire for purity, especially when in the mud of sensuality.

      Good to stay always by cause and effect and don’t leave the middle path by Papanca.

      “To be or not to be” isn’t a releasing question. And no need for further identifications once the deathless, unchanging, is gained

      (Samana Johann)

    • #51966
      Lal
      Keymaster

      ” But since Nibbana is described as niccaatta and sukha (the opposite of the conditioned elements) and only the specific mind that cultivates this correct perception (that conditions are Tilakkhana) merges with this element, would it be appropriate to say Nibbana is their “self”?”

      • No. It is only those striving to attain Nibbana consider it to be of niccaatta, sukha VERSUS aniccaanatta, dukha associated with existence in any realm of this world.
      • A living Arahant also sees what they have attained as niccaatta, and sukha. Of course, they will experience any physical ailments associated with the body they were born with, but they know that it will also go away when the physical body dies. 
      • Nibbana means total dissociation from this world. Nibbana cannot be described in terms of the vocabulary “of this world.”
      • The “ever-changing personality” terminates with becoming an Arahant.
      • Only the physical body born as an “average human (puthujjana)” lives until its death and is subjected to physical ailments; after the death of the physical body, there is no trace of that “lifestream.” Only mental phenomena sustained that lifestream! 
      • That should be clear when you see that the Paticca Samuppada process starts with “avijja paccaya sankhara” and leads to “bhava ” and “jati” leading to existence as a human, Deva, animal, etc. at different times. All those existences were maintained/sustained by kammic energy!
      • It takes an effort to stop evaluating Buddha Dhamma with a “mundane mindset.” A paradigm change is necessary to understand Buddha’s teachings, as I pointed out in the current post: “Sensory Experience, Paṭicca Samuppāda, and pañcupādānakkhandha.” 
    • #51968

      Maybe useful in regard of the OP: MN 1: Mulapariyaya Sutta — The Root Sequence

      As for now, trainee (and later similar, Satipatthana):

      …“He directly knows Unbinding as Unbinding. Directly knowing Unbinding as Unbinding, let him not conceive things about Unbinding, let him not conceive things in Unbinding, let him not conceive things coming out of Unbinding, let him not conceive Unbinding as ‘mine,’ let him not delight in Unbinding. Why is that? So that he may comprehend it, I tell you.

      (Samana Johann)

    • #51970
      lagrade
      Participant

      Thank you for correcting me with your compassionate responses!

      @Dhammañāṇa Bhikkhu:

      “It’s good and very needed to see one’s actions as own, make them important, look for it’s beauty and purity, to practice and to abound all of what’s no refuge, including, after having abond objects of identification in the sensual-word, also such as perception, even ideas of Nibbana.

      But for now just much care about what’s a useful island, goodness, metta, virtue, purification of Sila, to gain the required Brahma-joy, to be able of refined purification and beyond.”

      I see, the goal is to build the right perspective to see things the way they are, i.e. why conditions are impermanent, unstable and unreliable. Of course that will take intentional efforts encompassing the traits you mentioned: “goodness, metta, virtue, purification of Sila, to gain the required Brahma-joy, to be able of refined purification and beyond.”

      @Lal:

      “Nibbana means total dissociation from this world. Nibbana cannot be described in terms of the vocabulary “of this world.

      The “ever-changing personality” terminates with becoming an Arahant.”

      Got it, that would mean the idea of “self” is not relevant to Nibbana. But it is the specific mind of an arahant that dissociates from this world and merges with Nibbana, right? So I would think there is individuality, at least till death.

    • #51971

      Things aren’t but do. Good to do, to hold deeds (kamma) as ones own, to take on just right and pleasing deeds, to go beyond all need of doing. Doing is burdensome, requires steady paccaya. And yes, doing is very individual.

      Doing so, gained faith, one is already called a firm person.

      (Samana Johann)

    • #51974
      Lal
      Keymaster

      @lagrade:

      Let me put it this way: There is no “soul-type” permanent entity as in Cristianity. It is an illusion.

      • Paticca Samuppada explains that the idea of an “everlasting self” (a “soul-type” entity) is an illusion. Each “existence” is created by the mind in previous lives. That is how the rebirth process continues.
      •  Please reread my above comment and the post I recommended. 
      • The following post could be helpful too: “What Reincarnates? – Concept of a Lifestream
    • #51975
      lagrade
      Participant

      Sorry, but I am confused. I understood this point: “Paticca Samuppada explains that the idea of an “everlasting self” (a “soul-type” entity) is an illusion. Each “existence” is created by the mind in previous lives. That is how the rebirth process continues.”

      So what is the goal?

    • #51976
      Lal
      Keymaster

      The goal is to end the suffering in the rebirth process.

      • The Buddha taught the following: We will not be reborn humans repeatedly (or be reborn in a higher, heavenly realm for eternity). Depending on their actions (moral/immoral), humans can be reborn in higher or lower realms. We can see only one of the four lower realms, the animal realm; the other three lower realms have even more suffering. In addition, rebirths in the low realms are much more frequent. Therefore, there is unimaginable suffering in the rebirth process.
      • That is why one would want to end the rebirth process and attain Nibbana.

      You have not read my comments or the posts I recommended (or do not have enough background on Buddha’s teachings). If interested, I recommend reading “What Reincarnates? – Concept of a Lifestream” to learn about the rebirth process.

    • #51979

      Sorry, but I am confused. I understood this point: “Paticca Samuppada explains that the idea of an “everlasting self” (a “soul-type” entity) is an illusion. Each “existence” is created by the mind in previous lives. That is how the rebirth process continues.”

      So what is the goal?

      Good householder,

      to end the pointless wandering on from birth, aging, sickness and decay, the everon grasping of what’s lost again, to end the burden of steady sacrificing and arrive at peace, at the deathless, the task with an end done.

      This path starts and ends with good deeds, blameless deeds, as it’s the source for blameless joy, required for the path.

      (Samana Johann)

    • #52001
      lagrade
      Participant

      @Lal:

      Thank you for responding. You don’t have to be cocky about your knowledge.

      I did read your comments and the essays you referenced. You make the same conclusion in most of your posts, summarized as, “A sentient being is an everchanging lifestream that evolves according to the law of Paticca Samuppada. There is no self in reality but beings below the arahant stage have the perception of self.”

      My issue with that idea is that how can there be perception of anything along with conscious ability to think and do bodily actions if there is no self in reality? Furthermore, when an arahant realizes that there is no “me”, do they suddenly become talking corpses?

      By “goal”, I wasn’t referring to the ultimate goal of ending rebirth process but the understanding one needs to have in this context. If each existence represents different “person”, why should one worry about future suffering?

      Note: I started this thread with the intent of learning. If I say anything wrong, I want to be corrected. It is okay if ya’ll don’t have answers, lmk and I’ll stop posting.

    • #52002
      Lal
      Keymaster

      “My issue with that idea is that how can there be perception of anything along with conscious ability to think and do bodily actions if there is no self in reality?”

      • The innate sense of a “me” will be there (at different levels) until one attains the Arahant stage.

      _______

      “Furthermore, when an arahant realizes that there is no “me”, do they suddenly become talking corpses?”

      • No. Their mind would be free of even a trace of greed, anger, and ignorance (about the true nature of the world.)
      • Instead of becoming corpses, they will have the best clarity of mind.

      ___________

      “By “goal”, I wasn’t referring to the ultimate goal of ending rebirth process but the understanding one needs to have in this context.”

      • Without believing in the process, one cannot understand the “true nature of the world.” 
      • It is up to each person to believe or not believe in the rebirth process. However, Buddha’s teachings (at least the more profound aspects, like the absence of a soul) cannot be understood without a rebirth process. The laws of kamma (explained via Paticca Samuppada) operate not only in this life but also in future lives. For example, person X may kill another and be able not to get caught by law enforcement. But he will not be able to escape the consequence of that immoral deed (kamma vipaka) and being born as an animal or worse. 

      _____

      “If each existence represents different “person”, why should one worry about future suffering?”

      • Future lives are not that different from present lives. Were you the “exact same person” when you were five, ten, or twenty years old? Did you look the same at those stages, have the same ambitions/goals or outlook on life, etc., as now?
      • Whether you are worried about suffering in the coming years or not, suffering will increase as you get older (it applies to all of us). In the same way, at least according to the Buddha, suffering in future lives cannot be avoided until one cleanses one’s mind of greed, anger, and ignorance (about the true nature of the world.)
      • P.S. What aspect of “Lagrade” has remained unchanged over the years to make it a specific and same exact “Lagrade”? 
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    • #52004
      Jittananto
      Participant

      Lagrade, I admit that the site uses advanced terms and concepts that are difficult for a beginner to understand. Even I didn’t understand certain concepts. This site is more suitable for those who are advanced. I suggest focusing on the monastery sermons because they are very suitable for beginners. They use terms that are easy for non-Buddhists and new Buddhists to grasp. If you want, I can put you in contact with monks who can give you private sermons adapted to your understanding. To begin on the path to the end of suffering, a person who has reached at least the first level of the path (Sotāpanna) must explain it to us. We cannot reach the first stage by reading, we must hear it with our ears. It is When one becomes Sotāpanna that one becomes independent and no longer needs to hear. An average human must hear with their ears, to reach the first stage. This is a personal recommendation, but I advise you to speak with the monks of the monastery to facilitate your understanding and assimilation of the Dhamma! You can contact me at my email [email protected] if you are interested!

    • #52008
      lagrade
      Participant

      @Lal:

      “The innate sense of a “me” will be there (at different levels) until one attains the Arahant stage.”

      Yes, how is that possible? There shouldn’t be any sense of ‘me’ if there is no ‘me’ in the first place.

      “Future lives are not that different from present lives. Were you the “exact same person” when you were five, ten, or twenty years old? Did you look the same at those stages, have the same ambitions/goals or outlook on life, etc., as now”

      Thank you. This presents a strong argument that there seems to be no unchanging entity that defines the essence of an individual. But like you said, there is a sense of me so one could argue that there is a dynamic self. How would that be incorrect?

      @Jittananto:

      “If you want, I can put you in contact with monks who can give you private sermons adapted to your understanding. To begin on the path to the end of suffering, a person who has reached at least the first level of the path (Sotāpanna) must explain it to us.”

      That would be great, thank you.

    • #52009
      Lal
      Keymaster

      I have tried to explain it as simply as possible. Those are concepts that require a sufficient background. 

      • Hopefully, you will be able to understand it someday (or maybe even now by reading through the above discussion, including the suggested posts). I hope you will not lose interest in Buddha’s teachings.
      • If you are interested in learning the fundamentals, I recommend reading from the following two sections: “Moral Living and Fundamentals” and “Living Dhamma.” 

      Of course, if someone else is willing to continue the discussion, please do. I don’t have the time necessary to explain this material in detail, as it is covered in posts throughout this website.

    • #52010
      Yash RS
      Participant

      Asking questions like “is there a self?”, or “is there no self?” or “is there both self and no self?” or “is there neither self nor no self?” Are wrong questions to ask. Rather the Buddha said that the right question is to ask that “why do I feel a self?”. If you see a car, you can feel that there is a car, but if I ask you to touch the car , you won’t be able to. If you touch the frame then it’s steel not car, if you touch the Windows then it’s glass not car. You can touch those individual parts that make up a car, but never a car. So is there a car or not? Again wrong question. Ask why do I feel that there is a car? Answer is because all those causes have been arranged in a manner that match your perception of a car. If you take those individual parts and arrange them differently, you will feel that the “Car” has been disfigured, but only the arrangement has changed. It’s the mind’s nature to feel entities and not manifestations. Feeling a “Car” causes all of this mess, there is just manifestation of a Car(effect)as long as the individual parts(causes) are arranged in the “right order”(condition). Mind is just a process which only interacts with its environment, but due to its inbuilt “fault” it experiences a Self . If you have read what Rupa,Vedana,Sañña, Sankhara and Viññaña in a mental process is ,then it would be easier to grasp this. These are just steps of recognition and perception, that’s all.

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    • #52011
      Lal
      Keymaster

      Excellent, Yash!

      In a comment above, I asked Lagrade the following to point out a similar issue regarding one of his questions:

      Lagrade’s question: “If each existence represents different “person”, why should one worry about future suffering?”

      • Future lives are not that different from present lives. Were you the “exact same person” when you were five, ten, or twenty years old? Did you look the same at those stages, have the same ambitions/goals or outlook on life, etc., as now?
      • Whether you are worried about suffering in the coming years or not, suffering will increase as you get older (it applies to all of us). In the same way, at least according to the Buddha, suffering in future lives cannot be avoided until one cleanses one’s mind of greed, anger, and ignorance (about the true nature of the world.)
      • P.S. What aspect of “Lagrade” has remained unchanged over the years to make it a specific and same exact “Lagrade”? 
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    • #52012
      taryal
      Participant

      Hello Lagrade,

      I am sorry to see that you’re confused about this topic. While I don’t consider myself a Dhamma expert, I will try to help you with my 2 cents:

      You wrote: “My issue with that idea is that how can there be perception of anything along with conscious ability to think and do bodily actions if there is no self in reality?”

      Saññā (perception) is one of the mental aggregates and is a kamma vipaka, i.e. a result of past action (kamma). According to Tipitaka, the precise details of how a kammic energy can ripen into its corresponding vipaka is only discernible to a Sammasambuddha. What we can do is get the general idea. A sentient being can’t recognize anything without having perception. A human has “manussa saññā“, deva has “deva saññā”, dog has “dog saññā” and so on. We have all experienced uncountable perceptions in the beginless samsara. The first saññā can not be traced back according to Buddha. But our perceptions don’t give us the “absolute truth” as our sense organs provide us a fabricated version of reality. A good example is provided by Yash above. What we conveniently call a “person” is an assemblage of parts, specifically the 5 aggregates.

      Now to the other point regarding the “conscious ability to think and do bodily actions”. Our awareness arises due to 2 processes: sensory input and the processing of sensory input. A sentient being is an everchanging entity that behaves according to the existence resulted by the law of Paticca Samuppada. This is true for even a single life as demonstrated by Dr. Lal above. There is no enduring entity that you can can attribute as your “self”.

      But then you may ask why it is wrong to identify with the aggregates even if they are impermanent. You asked: “there is a sense of me so one could argue that there is a dynamic self.”

      Buddha said you can’t say something is truly “yours” under the following conditions:

      • It is not under your complete control
      • It can’t be maintained to your satisfaction
      • It leads to suffering in the long run

      You are correct in pointing out that we have conscious abilities. A healthy human has a pretty sharp mind capable of performing complex tasks, BUT the question is how long will that last? As we get older, our bodies age and eventually our brains will start to decay. Our “conscious abilities” will continue to worsen as we enter old age. It will get even worse when the kammic energy sustaining the human existence is exhausted and an apaya existence is grasped after death. An animal’s conscious abilities are much more limited than that of a human, for example and of course its suffering is far worse. So if something is inconstant, subject to unexpected and unwanted changes, and ultimately leads to suffering, would it be appropriate to say this is ‘me’ or this is my ‘self’?

      When you study Abhidhamma in detail, this will get even more clear. Our awareness is a result of several units of cognitions knows as “citta”. There is only one citta at a time. Identifying with it would be like saying “I arise and disappear” which wouldn’t make sense.

      And as for Nibbana, Buddha said it exists but there are no words in this word that can be used to describe what it is. So the status of an arahant is the wrong point to start. This is why Buddha said it is incorrect to make the following statements about an arahant:

      “They exist after death”

      “They don’t exist after death”

      “They neither exist nor don’t exist after death.”

      “They both exist and don’t exist after death.”

      But to get to the arahant level and the end of suffering, intentional efforts are needed. So yes, “individuality” is there because we are responsible for our own future. Buddha always encouraged his followers to train like a horse trained for battle!

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    • #52013
      lagrade
      Participant

      That was awesome. Thanks a lot, Taryal. I feel like you understand my problem. My doubts have cleared a lot, just need some more pondering. Sending you much love from crazy New England!

    • #52014
      Lal
      Keymaster

      Excellent, Taryal!

      • I am happy that our community is becoming knowledgeable in the deeper aspects of Buddha’s teachings.

      Taryal wrote:Saññā (perception) is one of the mental aggregates and is a kamma vipaka, i.e. a result of past action (kamma). According to Tipitaka, the precise details of how a kammic energy can ripen into its corresponding vipaka is only discernible to a Sammasambuddha. What we can do is get the general idea. A sentient being can’t recognize anything without having perception. A human has “manussa saññā“, deva has “deva saññā”, dog has “dog saññā” and so on..”

      • That summarizes a critical aspect of our world! 

      1. “Saññā” (loosely translated as “perception”) is a critical concept in Buddha’s teachings. It is one of the five aggregates (or, more correctly, pancupadanakkhandha) that summarizes our sensory experience and how we respond to those experiences. 

      • In fact, most of our decisions are based on saññā. Only bodily contacts directly lead to feelings (vedana) of pleasure or pain/distress. All other sensory experiences (sights, sounds, tastes, smells) only lead to saññā of like/dislike, tasty/bitter, etc.; they feel the same as vedana.  That is clearly distinguished in Abhidhamma.
      • As I have pointed out many times, the taste of honey or the smell of a rose is a saññā and not a vedana in a strict sense. However, that difference is not emphasized in the suttas because Abhidhamma was fully developed after the Buddha’s Parinibbana. 

      2. The critical role of saññā becomes clear when we compare the sensory experiences of humans (manussa) with those of animals. 

      • Humans and animals feel the pain and pleasure in physical contact in the same way. They all feel pain if hit with a stick or injured.
      • However, “manussa saññāis different from “animal saññā.“ Furthermore, different animals generate different types of saññā. While humans and bears like the taste of honey (they seem to give a sukha vedana), cows get a sukha vedana from eating grass. Lions get a sukha vedana when they eat the flesh of other animals, etc.. All those are examples of saññā!

      3. Saññā is built into the physical and mental bodies of humans and animals, so it arises automatically. Even after attaining magga phala or even the Arahant stage, those built-in saññās remain. Thus, an Arahant would also taste honey as sweet.

      • The following short video is about migrating birds, which helps explain the concept of “built-in saññā.” There are many other examples, like how ants build “mega colonies” or how dogs can find their way home if released hundreds of miles away.
      • Migrating birds have a built-in saññā to trigger them to start migrating and also to provide navigationTheir bodies have built-in mechanisms (via kammic energy/Paticca Samuppada) to provide navigation. I asked Grok AI about it and it gave the following description.
      Migrating birds possess a natural compass mechanism that is believed to be magnetically sensitive. Here’s a bit more detail:
      • Magnetoreception: Many species of birds can detect the Earth’s magnetic field, which helps them navigate during migration. This ability is known as magnetoreception.
      • Cryptochrome Theory: One leading theory suggests that birds use proteins called cryptochromes, located in their eyes, which might be sensitive to magnetic fields. When these proteins absorb light, they could become involved in chemical reactions that are influenced by the Earth’s magnetic field, thus providing directional information.
      • Iron Particles: Another theory involves magnetite, a naturally magnetic form of iron oxide. Some studies have found tiny particles of magnetite in the beaks of homing pigeons and other birds. These particles might act like a microscopic compass needle, helping birds sense direction.
      • Other Navigation Tools: Besides magnetism, birds also use visual landmarks, the position of the sun, star patterns, and possibly even smell to navigate.
      • Therefore, migrating birds have biological systems that detect magnetic fields, aiding their remarkable navigational abilities during migration.

      P.S. Another example is how ants build sophisticated “cities.” Watch the video in #10 of the postHow Character (Gati) Leads to Bhava and Jāti.” It is informative to read that post, too.

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    • #52023
      taryal
      Participant

      May I add, baby turtles running for life as soon as they’re born:

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    • #52024
      taryal
      Participant

      This is one of the reasons I cringe when people say “God is good”. Look at the suffering of animals in the wild. If organizations like National Geographic didn’t exist, most humans wouldn’t even be aware of how brutal this world is. What is “right” and what is “wrong” here? It seems like more external discoveries we make, more we know that Buddha is right.

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    • #52025
      Lal
      Keymaster

      Thank you, Taryal.

      • Yes. There are many such examples of “built-in” saññā, which helps those species in many cases.
      • On the other hand, the built-in “distorted saññā” providing a “false sense of pleasure” is common to all living beings, which traps them in the rebirth process. Living beings in “kāma loka” receive a false/distorted kāma saññā for sensory inputs. Rupa loka Brahmās receive a false/distorted jhānic saññā and Arupa loka Brahmās receive a false/distorted arupa samāpatti saññā.
      • It is essential to distinguish between the two categories.
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    • #52028
      taryal
      Participant

      Here is another example of built-in saññā. Iguana hatchlings running for life as soon as they’re born:

      A human baby can’t even move after birth. It is crazy to think that these animals face horror as soon as they come out of the egg. This is the actual Noble Truth of Suffering (Dukkha Sacca).

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    • #52029
      Jittananto
      Participant

      This is why the animal world is one of the 4 apayas! Even if the suffering of the animal kingdoms is nothing compared to that of the Nirayas and the world of hungry ghosts! The asuras suffer a little less.

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    • #52030
      taryal
      Participant

      Dhamma can be stressful to learn. So take it easy guys and gradually comprehend the truth so that you can become at least a Sotapanna and be free from the harsh suffering of the apaya.

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    • #52109
      TripleGemStudent
      Participant

      “If each existence represents different “person”, why should one worry about future suffering?”<br /><br />

      Over the years I have seen the same or similar question brought up in different places. I can understand why others might think and feel this way.  

      What I can say in addition to already what’s been mentioned is that if my memory serves me correctly, I believe it’s a Theravada orthodox teaching that teaches one of the sufferings preta’s (hungry ghost) experience is that the preta’s would remember the unwholesome kamma they committed from their previous lives and unpleasant vipaka such domanassa (unpleasant thoughts), lamentation, pain, grief, despair or the dukkhakkhandhassa would continuously torment (come to back) their mind and body.  

      Here’s a PD post that can be related to this thread. 

      Does hell exist?

      A perspective / way of thinking that helped me to see things from another approach is that regardless what myself and others might interpret / believe what anatta means, whether there is self or no self as well the question of whether one should worry about future suffering. As long we understand the 3 characteristics anicca, dukkha, anatta takes effect for any living beings phenomenon / experience in the present and into the future and how no living beings (satta’s) are exempt from these 3 characteristics in any realms of existence. I believe the wise, intelligent, important, right or most sensible thing to do with our current jati would be to strive / walk on the Noble 8 Fold Path to attain nibbana.

      Currently we’re so fortunate to have the Buddha dhamma teachings still available to us living beings to learn and practice from. The resources we have today can be considered both unfavorable and favorable for us dhamma practitioners to at least attain the sotapanna stage. For us Buddhist practitioners, we should really use the best of this opportunity in our current jati for the betterment of our life stream and all sentient beings. As one of many examples that could be given, imagine one day being able to guarantee other living beings that one won’t cause / do harm to them. If there’s a path / way to attain such a characteristic, wouldn’t this be a wise / sensible / intelligent thing to carry out as a living being regardless if there’s a self or not? 

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    • #52345
      Christian
      Participant

      @lagrade

      I always tell people who go beyond their means of understanding that when it comes to “self” or “no self” and Nibbana they are trying to think of color they don’t know – it’s just impossible to understand that conceptually on the level you would like to understand.

      The way it works is that the mind can exist without any attachment or desire, and the existence of that mind makes the “self” vanish. While in the body, the function of the body still stays the same, with new outcomes and experiences that result from Nibbana. Buddha explained it as Nibbana with residue.

      “What, bhikkhus, is the Nibbāna-element with residue left? Here a bhikkhu is an arahant, one whose taints are destroyed, the holy life fulfilled, who has done what had to be done, laid down the burden, attained the goal, destroyed the fetters of being, completely released through final knowledge. However, his five sense faculties remain unimpaired, by which he still experiences what is agreeable and disagreeable and feels pleasure and pain. It is the extinction of attachment, hate, and delusion in him that is called the Nibbāna-element with residue left.” – “Nibbānadhātu Sutta

      People are scared of the “no self” idea because of misunderstanding and they overthink it because they think about it in terms of an ignorant person. Some people are scared to lose “hate” or their negative emotions. Freedom from self is not practice or philosophy like some people trying to make, but the outcome of Nibbana – you will come to it sooner or later. It’s good to remind yourself of your position and know where you stand with your understanding of Dhamma to not fall into delusion. Some people come to scientists and start to argue about their delusions or ideas without having basic knowledge and understanding of themselves. Curiosity is natural but we must understand that when it’s beyond our understanding we may very quickly become ignorant in our actions without being aware of doing so.

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    • #52406
      lagrade
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      @Christian:

      So what you’re basically saying is that Nibbana is not “nothing” but also unlike anything we can comprehend?

    • #52414
      Christian
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      What I’m saying is that you trying to understand mathematics without understanding concepts of numbers and arithmetics.

      First, you need to read suttas (be wary that a lot of them have the wrong translation) which is the basis of Dhamma to have an overall grasp, you try to understand and think things from a perspective outside the curriculum which will be problematic for yourself and others in the long term. 

      This is one point of the coin, the other is the never-ending compassion that comes from the Buddha – when one realizes that the suttas have a heart and mind it will open new possibilities to see things. One needs to understand Dhamma can not be approached with only scientific cold-heart calculations but it’s a living tradition that is meant to be experienced through the whole body, mind, and heart. It may sound vague because you need to certain maturity in tradition to experience it. Let’s go through step by step so you can understand from the “outside” perspective but this can never be learned by being “outside”.

      And what is the unconditioned?

      The ending of greed, hate, and delusion. – Samathavipassanāsutta SN 43.2

      There he addressed the mendicants: “Reverends, extinguishment is bliss! Extinguishment is bliss!”

      When he said this, Venerable Udāyī said to him, “But Reverend Sāriputta, what’s blissful about it, since nothing is felt?”

      “The fact that nothing is felt is precisely what’s blissful about it. – Nibbānasukhasutta AN 9.34

      https://puredhamma.net/key-dhamma-concepts/nibbana-difficult-to-understand – Here is good chunk of information that may help you understand

      Then the brahmin Jāṇussoṇī approached the Blessed One … and said to him:

      “Master Gotama, it is said: ‘Directly visible nibbāna, directly visible nibbāna.’ In what way is nibbāna directly visible, immediate, inviting one to come and see, applicable, to be personally experienced by the wise?”

      (1) “Brahmin, one excited by lust, overcome by lust, with mind obsessed by it, intends for his own affliction, for the affliction of others, or for the affliction of both, and he experiences mental suffering and dejection. But when lust is abandoned, he does not intend for his own affliction, for the affliction of others, or for the affliction of both, and he does not experience mental suffering and dejection. It is in this way that nibbāna is directly visible.

      (2) “One full of hate, overcome by hatred …

      (3) “One who is deluded, overcome by delusion, with mind obsessed by it, intends for his own affliction, for the affliction of others, or for the affliction of both, and he experiences mental suffering and dejection. But when delusion is abandoned, he does not intend for his own affliction, for the affliction of others, or for the affliction of both, and he does not experience mental suffering and dejection. It is in this way, too, that nibbāna is directly visible.

      “When, brahmin, one experiences the remainderless destruction of lust, the remainderless destruction of hatred, and the remainderless destruction of delusion, it is in this way, too, that nibbāna is directly visible, immediate, inviting one to come and see, applicable, to be personally experienced by the wise.” – Nibbutasutta AN 3.55

      The way to have a mental “image” I will use the example of the flu or cold, everybody experienced being unwell at least once in their lifetime – imagine that you have never really been free from the flu and your condition of existence is like this of flu but it does not become evident unless you start the healing process, so you may feel “okay” you do not feel like “flu” because right now you may feel okayish in terms of being neutral or have a home, sensual pleasure or anything that makes you think “you are fine” but this is relative, if you get sick or you will lost what you have right now it will become more on suffering side. In the same way, what you consider mundane happiness to Nibbana and Dhamma is suffering. Keep in mind that I’m using here mundane examples so you can relate to it from your own experience but when we speak about Nibbana, Dhamma, and experiences in it we speaking about different realities that a person experiences, not just feelings. That’s why while Arahant while in the body has attained Nibbana, still can feel pain.

      There is another pleasure that is finer than that. And what is that pleasure? It’s when a mendicant, going totally beyond the dimension of infinite consciousness, aware that ‘there is nothing at all’, enters and remains in the dimension of nothingness. …

      There is another pleasure that is finer than that. And what is that pleasure? It’s when a mendicant, going totally beyond the dimension of nothingness, enters and remains in the dimension of neither perception nor non-perception. This is a pleasure that is finer than that.

      There are those who would say that this is the highest pleasure and happiness that sentient beings experience. But I don’t grant them that. Why is that? Because there is another pleasure that is finer than that. And what is that pleasure? It’s when a mendicant, going totally beyond the dimension of neither perception nor non-perception, enters and remains in the cessation of perception and feeling. This is a pleasure that is finer than that. Since all feeling is conditioned, and what is conditioned is suffering, the cessation of feeling is reckoned as pleasurable.

      It’s possible that wanderers of other religions might say, ‘The ascetic Gotama spoke of the cessation of perception and feeling, and he includes it in happiness. What’s up with that?’

      When wanderers of other religions say this, you should say to them, ‘Reverends, when the Buddha describes what’s included in happiness, he’s not just referring to pleasant feeling. The Realized One describes pleasure as included in happiness wherever it is found, and in whatever context.’” – Bahuvedanīyasutta MN59

      To use simple logic if your hand is colder than the cup you grab it will be something that you may consider “warm”. If you attain first jhana what was happiness in terms of sensual pleasure is now considered “flu” for your reality of first jhana while in “neutral human state” it was something you would pursue to make yourself “happy”.

      One needs to understand that the mind is detached from sansara is Nibbana. The whole confusion about Nibbana stating, something that exists or not happens because the mind automatically tries to connect it to the experiences that are understood through hate, greed, and lust so it’s impossible to understand for someone who is not Ariya:

      Then Venerable Kaccānagotta went up to the Buddha, bowed, sat down to one side, and said to him:

      “Sir, they speak of this thing called ‘right view’. How is right view defined?”

      “Kaccāna, this world mostly relies on the dual notions of existence and non-existence.

      But when you truly see the origin of the world with right understanding, the concept of non-existence regarding the world does not occur. And when you truly see the cessation of the world with right understanding, the concept of existence regarding the world does not occur. – Kaccānagottasutta SN 12.15

      As a flame tossed by a gust of wind,” replied the Buddha, “comes to an end and cannot be reckoned;so too, a sage freed from the set of mental phenomena comes to an end and cannot be reckoned.” – Upasīvamāṇavapucchā SNP 5.7

      Trying to “think” what Nibbana is is trying to think where the flame goes after being extinguished – you will just create many delusions. This is why Buddha explains what Nibbana is in terms of what it leads to Nibbana which means “if you want to know what it is, you need to walk the Path and have the right view”.

      See, this teaching is hard to understand, it confuses the ignorant. There is darkness for the shrouded; blackness for those who don’t see.

      But the good are open; like light for those who see. Though close, they do not understand, those fools inexpert in the teaching.

      They’re mired in desire to be reborn, flowing along the stream of lives, mired in Māra’s sway: this teaching isn’t easy for them to understand.

      Who, apart from the noble ones, is qualified to understand this state? Having rightly understood this state, the undefiled become fully extinguished.” – Dvayatānupassanāsutta SNP 3.12<br />

      We are concluding your main topic question:

      “One who has come to an end—do they not exist? Or are they free from disease for eternity? Please, sage, answer me clearly, for truly you understand this matter.”

      “One who has come to an end cannot be defined,” replied the Buddha. “They have nothing by which others might describe them. When all things have been eradicated, eradicated, too, are all ways of speech.”- Upasīvamāṇavapucchā SNP 5.7

      My suggestion would be to stop trying to conceptualize Nibbana because you will only make up a falsified mind story about it. Nibbana will be evident once the right views are realized – in the sense that way to Nibbana will be evident at Sotapanna stage.

      At one time Venerable Sāriputta and Venerable Mahākoṭṭhita were staying near Varanasi, in the deer park at Isipatana.

      Then in the late afternoon, Venerable Mahākoṭṭhita came out of retreat, went to Venerable Sāriputta, and exchanged greetings with him. When the greetings and polite conversation were over, he sat down to one side, and said to Sāriputta:

      “Reverend Sāriputta, does a realized one still exist after death?”

      “Reverend, this has not been declared by the Buddha.”

      “Well then, does a realized one no longer exist after death? …

      Does a realized one both exist and not exist after death? …

      Does a realized one neither exist nor not exist after death?”

      “This too has not been declared by the Buddha.”

      “Reverend, when asked these questions, you say that they have not been declared by the Buddha. What’s the cause, what’s the reason why they have not been declared by the Buddha?”

      “Reverend, ‘does a realized one still exist after death?’ is included in form. ‘Does a realized one no longer exist after death?’ is included in form. ‘Does a realized one both still exist and no longer exist after death?’ is included in form. ‘Does a realized one neither still exist nor no longer exist after death?’ is included in form.

      ‘does a realized one still exist after death?’ is included in feeling … perception … choices … consciousness. ‘Does a realized one no longer exist after death?’ is included in consciousness. ‘Does a realized one both still exist and no longer exist after death?’ is included in consciousness. ‘Does a realized one neither still exist nor no longer exist after death?’ is included in consciousness.

      This is the cause, this is the reason why this has not been declared by the Buddha.” – Paṭhamasāriputtakoṭṭhikasutta SN 44.3

      All ideas about Nibbana come from “form, feeling, perception, choices (I think it’s the wrong translation), consciousness” that people have this is why we are saying Nibbana can not be understood the way people would like to know it. This situation is like eating cake and having cake at the same time. It’s impossible. You either develop understanding through the right view and the 8-fold Path or you will keep imaging stuff, trying to get that “perfect” image and becoming ever more far away from the Nibbana but yet Buddha assures us about Nibbana:

      There is that dimension, monks, where there is neither earth, nor water, nor fire, nor wind; neither dimension of the infinitude of space, nor dimension of the infinitude of consciousness, nor dimension of nothingness, nor dimension of neither perception nor non-perception; neither this world, nor the next world, nor sun, nor moon. And there, I say, there is neither coming, nor going, nor staying; neither passing away nor arising: unestablished, unevolving, without support [mental object]. This, just this, is the end of stress. – Nibbāna Sutta: Unbinding UD 8.1

      In translation we have “dimension” from the word “tadāyatanaṃ” – here Lal would do a better job explaining exactly the word in the context, but ayatana (https://puredhamma.net/key-dhamma-concepts/key-pali-terms-tanha-lobha-dosa-moha/indriya-and-ayatana-big-difference/) is related to mental dimension, not “heaven” or object outside of your mind. I’m not sure if you or someone else (maybe a different topic) said that “Arahant would be a vegetable without consciousness”  but in Dhamma, we meant that Arahant’s body and mind function without normally but what is meant here is “without consciousness” is without fabrication that is related to the pancakkhandha (https://puredhamma.net/key-dhamma-concepts/five-aggregates-pancakkhandha/pancakkhandha-or-five-aggregates-a-misinterpreted-concept/) – Arahant does not have pancakkandha but his physical faculties work as in normal person.

      I think that pretty much explains everything related to Nibbana, if you have any more questions feel free to ask – I will try to explain.

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    • #52415
      lagrade
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      Thank you, Christian!

      “All ideas about Nibbana come from “form, feeling, perception, choices (I think it’s the wrong translation), consciousness” that people have this is why we are saying Nibbana can not be understood the way people would like to know it.”

      “In translation we have “dimension” from the word “tadāyatanaṃ” – here Lal would do a better job explaining exactly the word in the context, but ayatana (https://puredhamma.net/key-dhamma-concepts/key-pali-terms-tanha-lobha-dosa-moha/indriya-and-ayatana-big-difference/) is related to mental dimension, not “heaven” or object outside of your mind.”

      Fabulous! This sounds like a state of transcendence, but I’ll do my homework and stop trying to decipher it with the concepts of the conditioned world (pancakkandha).

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