“So, I guess all one is supposed to do is to keep yoniso manasikara in mind, isn’t it?”
“Also, what do you mean by “one has to sort out family situation first”?”
I was addressing the issue of seeking the Anagami stage. As I explained, that cannot be done properly while being a “regular householder,” i.e., a married person living a regular married life.
– Therefore, one needs to consider the related serious issues: commitments to the spouse, children, etc. No one else can advise on that.