I had an incident happen just a couple of days ago where my male roommate was inappropriately dressed and I noticed. I’m rarely around under-dressed people. What I also noticed was the thoughts that happened subsequently and abhisankhara. The incident actually created an aversion b/c of the mind agitation and the realization that I need to move away from this type of environment.
What was good about it, was to see the thought process so clearly. I’ve been doing my best to avoid my immoral roommates, but it is clear that I need to a new home. With the new job promotion, I think it is coming soon.
Thanks so much for all your comments!
Donna