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May 17, 2026 at 11:37 am in reply to: Question about a Noble Disciple and Alcohol in the Commentaries #57444
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ParticipantThank you Mr. Lal,
I thought the same. But they were referring to this (https://tipitaka.lk/atta-dn-1-5/119-1/sinh?fbclid=IwdGRjcAR2v0hleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAo2NjI4NTY4Mzc5AAEeozqf0uAB6frZHN0dDpeibfSLfW8QRDqCdGikrFoknv1JgF5msiMiKrM6jFI_aem_3XAK646YHs06cRQDCzJlHw)
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ParticipantThank you for explaining this so clearly. I really liked how you explained it through the SabbÄsava Sutta. Your points about mindfulness, avoiding harmful situations, patience, good company, and staying away from bad environments made it much easier for me to understand. It helped me see that practising Dhamma does not mean silently accepting abuse, but dealing with it wisely without creating more bad kamma. Thanks again for your time.
February 13, 2026 at 7:02 am in reply to: Mindfulness, Wisdom, and Reducing Unwholesome Emotions in Daily Life #56550AniccaSeeker
ParticipantDear Lal, and HugoZyl, š
Thank you both very much for your time, patience, and kindness in responding to my questions.
I truly appreciate the detailed explanations as well as the gentle guidance and encouragement.
I realise that sometimes I may be chasing answers intellectually instead of calmly observing anicca, dukkha, and anatta in my own experience. Your responses helped me see that balance more clearly.
I feel that with the right causes and conditions, understanding will naturally grow as a result. So for now I will continue practicing mindfulness in daily life without worrying too much about resolving every philosophical question immediately.
Thank you again for your compassion and support.
Theruwan Saranai šŗ
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February 12, 2026 at 1:38 am in reply to: Mindfulness, Wisdom, and Reducing Unwholesome Emotions in Daily Life #56539AniccaSeeker
ParticipantIām sorry if I am asking repeated questions without reading everything in full.
I learn better through discussion rather than reading long paragraphs, and I donāt really have anyone nearby to discuss Dhamma with, Iām not in Sri Lanka and I donāt have access to monks or teachers here. Sometimes I feel a bit helpless, so I really appreciate this forum.
I am still reading about nava kamma and purÄna kamma, but meanwhile a question came to my mind:
If everything is conditioned, even thoughts and wisdom, is there such a thing as free action?
If everything arises due to causes and conditions, how does choice or freedom work?
Iām not even sure if I am asking this correctly, but I am trying to understand.
Any simple explanation would be very helpful.
Theruwan Saranai š
February 10, 2026 at 2:03 am in reply to: Mindfulness, Wisdom, and Reducing Unwholesome Emotions in Daily Life #56520AniccaSeeker
ParticipantDear HugoZyl šš»
Thank you very much for your kind suggestions and encouragement.
I feel that I can usually handle emotions in the first two levels you described, but the third type is definitely harder for me. I appreciate your advice about repeating āNamo Buddhayaā or using a calming phrase. I think it can help slow down my reactions and give me a little space and time to look at the root cause more clearly instead of immediately reacting.
I will try to practice this together with my mindfulness in daily life.
Thank you again for sharing this with kindness.
Namo Buddhaya šŗ
February 8, 2026 at 10:35 pm in reply to: Mindfulness, Wisdom, and Reducing Unwholesome Emotions in Daily Life #56509AniccaSeeker
ParticipantThank you for your guidance and for sharing those resources. I will try to go through some of the posts gradually and reflect on them together with my daily practice.
I am still learning step by step, so I may ask questions if something is not clear. I appreciate your time and explanations.
Bohoma pin, Theruwan Saranai!
February 8, 2026 at 10:19 am in reply to: Mindfulness, Wisdom, and Reducing Unwholesome Emotions in Daily Life #56502AniccaSeeker
Participant@AniccaSeeker: You may not have seen my above comment yet. I will wait to hear from you. I cannot explain things until I know roughly where you are on the Path.
- Until then, the following sutta explains what ‘bhÄvanÄ‘ in Buddha Dhamma is: “BhÄvanÄ Sutta (AN 7.71).” One must first cultivate Satipaį¹į¹hÄna.
- Essentially, one cannot remove defilements in the mind permanently (with the removal of samyojana) until one grasps the worldview of the Buddha and frees the mind of paƱca nÄ«varaį¹a at least for a short time.
- The first time overcoming paƱca nÄ«varaį¹a (temporarily) occurs at the Sotapanna phala moment.Ā
- So, the first step is to understand Buddha’s worldview. It explains how the ‘world’ (the same as paƱcupÄdÄnakkhandha) arises throughĀ two stages of mind contamination: purÄna kammaĀ andĀ nava kamma.Ā No one knows about the ‘unconscious part’ of the paƱcupÄdÄnakkhandhaĀ generation (the ‘purÄna kamma‘ stage) until a Buddha discovers it.
- Until then, everyone tries to stop mind contamination with the mind already in the nava kamma stage. They can never reach the purÄna kamma stage until they clearly understand how it arises automatically.
- That seems like a lot of work, but it can be done. But one must proceed step-by-step. Before starting on Satipaį¹į¹hÄna, one must meditate (contemplate) on the complete ‘mind contamination process’ occurring via two stages.Ā That allows the mind toĀ overcome paƱca nÄ«varaį¹a (temporarily) and attain the Sotapanna stage.
Dear Mr. Lal,
Thank you for your detailed reply and for the sutta reference š
Iām still a lay practitioner working mainly with daily-life mindfulness ā seeing how emotions and thoughts arise from craving and expectations, and trying to reduce clinging and aversion. I donāt really do long sitting meditation for hours yet. Instead, I try to observe my actions and thoughts throughout the day and look at them in terms of anicca, dukkha, and anatta.
Iām not very familiar with the terms purÄna kamma and nava kamma. What I currently understand instead are vipÄka citta and kamma citta, and that these two processes are operating in the mind. I am not sure whether emotions like anger and jealousy are vipÄka citta or kamma citta.
If they are vipÄka, I can observe them as anicca, dukkha, and anatta.
But if they are kamma, I wish to understand how to prevent them from arising in the first place.
All I currently understand is that everything is conditioned, a saį¹ khata, a paį¹icca-samuppanna process. Things do not bend according to our personal will; we can only have a limited, conditional influence. Because of this, I see that grasping and aversion lead to dukkha. By reflecting this way, I see the anatta nature ā that there is nothing solid to hold on to.
Could you please explain in simple terms what you mean by āpurÄna kammaā and ānava kamma,ā and how I can apply that practically when anger or jealousy arises in daily life?
Theruwan Saranai š
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ParticipantBohoma pin everyone for all your suggestions. Now I have a list and will look into them in more detail. Thank youĀ
May you all realise NibbÄna through the Bodhi you aspire to.
Theruwan Saranai šš
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ParticipantDear all,
Thank you so much for your replies. I really appreciate the kindness and honesty in what each of you shared š
I understand better now that even a good wish can become clinging if I hold onto it too tightly. My main intention is not āto become a bhikkhunÄ«ā as a goal by itself, but to keep purifying the mind and practising wisely. If the path leads to AnÄgÄmi, that would of course be far more meaningful than just wearing robes.
At the same time, I also see how monastic life can sometimes help by giving fewer distractions. So I am only exploring gently, not rushing, not forcing, just learning what possibilities exist.
It was also helpful to know that bhikkhunī ordination is unlikely at Waharaka monasteries. That gives me a realistic picture. If the future ever points toward ordination, I may have to look elsewhere while still trying to stay aligned with correct Dhamma.
For now, I will keep practising as a lay person, focusing on anicca, living with sila, and using uposatha days and quiet times for deeper reflection. I trust that if conditions are right, the next step will become clear naturally.
Thank you again for your guidance and encouragement. Theruwan Saranai š
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AniccaSeeker
ParticipantThank you both. Yes, ChatGPT told the same story ā it seems like thereās no bhikkhuni practice at Waharaka. Letās see; I hope the path or some support will arrive at the right time. Theruwan Saranai š
AniccaSeeker
ParticipantDear Lal,
I did some research and learned that the Buddha did not actually teach the concept of the five niyÄmas. What you explained was exactly correct ā bohoma pin for clarifying that.
Iāve also been learning about Waharaka Temple in Sri Lanka and Iām curious whether they support or host a bhikkhunÄ« community (fully ordained nuns), or if there are only monks there.
If anyone has visited or has reliable information about their approach to bhikkhunÄ« ordination or womenās monastic practice, I would really appreciate your insight.
Iām currently practicing anicca-vipassanÄ, and I feel less attached to worldly life as time goes on. Iām developing a sincere interest in someday becoming a bhikkhunÄ«. However, I donāt know of any place that follows Waharaka Theroās teachings for women. Iām not planning to make an immediate decision ā I only want to learn whether such places exist, in case I choose that path in the future.
Thank you!
AniccaSeeker
ParticipantDear Lal,
Thank you very much for your detailed explanation. I will go through all the provided links carefully, get a better understanding, and will comment later.
Theruwan Saranayi. š
August 31, 2025 at 10:52 pm in reply to: Seeking clarification on how I understand Anicca, Dukkha, and Anatta #54953AniccaSeeker
ParticipantThe means to get the Dhamma really understood, get craving, suffering, defilements, understood, see the first Noble truth rightly, is to steady associate with Dhamma, eg. dukkha. If not building up a firm border, fence, at first place, so that one does not steady “escape” wrongly from dukkha, there is no change to get it seen rightly. This face for purificasion is Sila, virtue, right conduct.
As long as building fake fences out of merely philosophical ideas, there is no way to come and stay in proper association, no way to develop Saddha and by it the path.
Venerable Bhante,
I fully understand your point, based on sÄ«la ā samÄdhi ā paƱƱÄ. I would like to share from my own experience.
From childhood, I was encouraged to keep sÄ«la. I tried my best to protect the paƱca-sÄ«la, even keeping a journal to track myself. But without knowing the true Dhamma, it was very difficult ā often it felt like just forcing myself.
Now, as I gradually realise the nature of anicca, dukkha, anatta, I find that sÄ«la and samÄdhi arise naturally. I no longer have to force them. For example, I cannot imagine killing, stealing, or lying ā not because I am holding external rules, but because before I even act, my citta itself shows me the ÄdÄ«nava. With wise attention I stop. If I slip due to assÄda, guilt immediately arises, which again reminds me of the truth.
So I feel: when true understanding is present, one does not need to cling to sÄ«la and samÄdhi by force ā they happen on their own.
As you beautifully said: āAt first, beginners protect sÄ«la with effort (fence). But when one sees anicca clearly, greed, hatred, and delusion weaken ā and sÄ«la begins to hold on its own.ā
This is what I am beginning to see in my own life.
With gratitude for your guidance.
Theruwan Saranayi. š
August 24, 2025 at 9:57 am in reply to: Seeking clarification on how I understand Anicca, Dukkha, and Anatta #54887AniccaSeeker
ParticipantDear Lal,
Bohoma pin for your kind words of encouragement. I also want to express my deepest gratitude for the tremendous effort you put into building the Pure Dhamma website and distributing the true Dhamma so freely.
I have already received so much help from your writings, and I know I will continue to gain more guidance in the future.
May you always have the strength and blessings to continue this noble work šĀ
Theruwan Saranai šš
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August 23, 2025 at 10:42 pm in reply to: Seeking clarification on how I understand Anicca, Dukkha, and Anatta #54882AniccaSeeker
ParticipantDear Lal,
Bohoma pin for your explanation. I took the time to read your articles, and this is the way I now understand it:
- The world indeed arises out of past avijjÄ and taį¹hÄ. Why? Because everything is built from suddhÄį¹į¹haka ā four elements (pathavi, Äpo, tejo, vÄyo) formed by avijjÄ, and the other four (vaį¹į¹a, gandha, rasa, ojÄ) made meaningful through taį¹hÄ.
- I now see more clearly what distorted saĆ±Ć±Ä means. We confuse our vipÄka vedanÄ with permanent reality.
- Example: cake tastes sweet. That āsweetnessā is distorted saƱƱÄ, not a fixed truth. In fact, itās only my vipÄka sukha vedanÄ manifesting.
- Without knowing this, I build taį¹hÄ over that saĆ±Ć±Ä ā I think the taste is āmine,ā controllable, available on demand.
- This is how avijjÄ and taį¹hÄ keep extending saį¹sÄra, leading to repeated dukkha.
- I also came to see the difference between anicca and anitya more clearly:
- Anitya (impermanence) is just one small part, like the tail of the elephant ā it points to the fact that things arise and pass away.
- Anicca is the whole elephant ā because these things arise and pass away beyond our control, they cannot be held according to desire. Thatās why clinging to them inevitably leads to dukkha, and shows anatta.
š Bohoma pin again for guiding me to see this connection between vipÄka vedanÄ, distorted saƱƱÄ, taį¹hÄ, and anicca.
If I am misunderstanding any part of this, please kindly correct me.
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